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Visualize , for a minute , your ideal soulmate . She or He may not have been part of any of the relationships you have experienced so far. On the other hand, the one you imagine may be your spouse or significant other. The “who” is not important for this experiment.

Now think about that ideal person’s face as you want it to look. Does it have a smile or a scowl?

If you said it has a scowl, make an appointment with a doctor now! because you need help.

Whom Do We Choose And Who Chooses Us?

Most of us want the significant relationship in our life to be someone who smiles a lot, whose eyes sparkle, who is filled with energy, and who is someone we consider to be “good company”. Of course, this is not enough for building a life-long relationship but it is a good start. It´s the ability to smile, to have fun and to involve others that help to attract the women or men.

Smiling Is Vital

Smiling is one of the first things we do as conscious humor beings – beings who are born with a sense of humor.

If women want to attract men, or men want to attract women, what is the first thing they do when their eyes meet? They smile – maybe shyly, perhaps hardly noticeably, maybe it’s just a slight facial twitch. But the message is clear: “I like you and I hope you will like me.” It is the initial tentative step in any friendly relationship.

Of course, one smile does not guarantee another in return. You may get a scowl. That’s a definite message to keep away. Smiles and scowls are primordial signals of encouragement or warning used by all humans and crossing all language barriers.

Smiling Is A Precursor To Bigger And Better Things!

So you gaze across a crowded room, smiling for three hours? Clearly, the smile is just the beginning, the message that says: “I am safe to approach,” and implicitly asks the question: “Are you?” An answering smile means at least that there is no danger. Now, you need to follow up in some appropriate fashion.

“I’m in love with you, will you marry me?” is clearly not appropriate. There is a protocol or acceptable behavior to follow. The next step is to get the other person to like us, and to find out if we like them. Go back to what you want your ideal partner to be like. One of the things most of us want in a relationship is fun - and my special prescription, FUN is the best way to learn the fun attitude that attracts mates in droves!

After the smile, that first approach needs to be relaxed and to relax the other person. Will talking about you do it? Hardly, if that’s how you open a conversation. Do this too soon and you could destroy a potential relationship before it even begins. Why should the other person be interested in you, what you do and what you think? Ask about the other person? That’s better. That person’s life is more likely to be of interest to them than yours is. And when the other person does the talking, they think you are a great conversationalist.

But it’s still too early for that. Starting with a serious conversation is usually a mistake, though it is frequently made.

Becoming Childlike Is The Key

You know what? There are no rules other than being natural and having fun. Only when a child enters school, where rules and discipline have to be enforced to maintain order, does innocence start to give way to the realities of a world in which not all is pleasant and fun. Only then, as a rule, are they taught not to speak to strangers because strangers can be dangerous.

The Key …Become The Person You Desire

The same is true now. There is no cookie-cutter set of rules for seducing the opposite sex. What works for one couple doent work for another. Use FUN to be a fun-loving person, remembering the simplicity and lack of deviousness of small children. An appropriate sense of fun and good humor can be the trigger for that magic start that can turn into love.

When you have revealed a sense of humor that is attractive to the other person, you will have the opportunity to show that you are also a caring person, kind-hearted, loving, sensitive, good parent potential, protective and all the other things in whatever combination is attractive to your potential partner. And you will be able to find out the same things about them. Then, you can become more committed.